The Real Stages of the Twin Flame Journey

There are only 3 real stages of the twin flame journey:

1. The Catalyst Awakens- You meet your twin flame. You go through a short "honeymoon" phase where you both can't get enough of each other- and I mean short. This only lasts up until a couple of months max. This is where the obsessive energy you feel towards them starts. The catalyst incarnation has started to awaken you.

2. First Test- The Dark Night of the Soul- The catalyst incarnation leaves you and gives you your first major test- The Dark Night of the Soul. Your ego starts to die and your true self emerges. It is born through the extreme pain of separation, teaching you that to be attached and to desire something is the root of all pain and misery. You are now ready to learn about self love, and start practising it. You are now ready to learn you are your soul, not your thoughts. You are more than just your incarnation. The veil of soul amnesia starts to lift as you become more aligned with your soul.

3. Study- You are now a soul in training. Learning how to attain inner peace by being present. Learning how to love yourself. Learning how detachment and surrender bring true joy and peace. When you attain this, and you will go through cycles of feeling this- and then also go through cycles of being tested and feeling despair. You will find it comes in waves, just like the ocean. At first, when you have big breakthroughs of peace, like a big wave it will break onto the shore. But then it will do the reverse, and just as big as a wave will smash you back with the obsessive energy again. This is how the energy balances itself out. Remember, we are here on Earth to learn how to manipulate energy. It's Newton's Third Law- For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. It is important to remember that this is a good sign that the energy is balancing itself out, and to ride the wave and keep being present, keep focusing on you. The more you be present, and practise self love and non attachment, the smaller the waves will become, until the ocean becomes still=balanced.

The best thing about this is as you become more balanced, the obsessive energy of the extreme romantic feelings and physical lust for your twin start to go away. You feel the love for yourself, and you feel whole. This is what it is meant by the twin flame journey not being a romantic love. Sure, you can have large bouts of feeling romantic love for them, but the journey is all about loving yourself. It doesn't mean you stop loving them. You will always love them- they are you, you are the same soul! It just means the desperate, obsessive part will subside.

This is the whole point of your twin flame journey- to break out of the obsessive energy stage. The problem with how society these days has portrayed twin flames is that it encourages people to stay in this obsessive, painful energy and promotes super attachment. This is super painful, and just drives your twin flame away further. This is because their own job is to teach you you don't need someone to love you, to and to make you feel whole. Only you can do that.

That's why the goal isn't physical union. They wouldn't be doing there job if you were both attached to each other.

The whole goal is actually the opposite- to become detached, and break the binds of codependency. Again, only you can make yourself feel love and make yourself feel whole.

That's what you are. That's your true form. You are a whole light being that is made of the energy of love. All our twin does is strip the layers off surrounding our true form, and makes us remember and feel that this is what we truly- beings made of love, as is the whole universe. That's the love you are feeling when you come into contact with your twin. You are feeling your true self in soul form.